As I mentioned in a few previous blogs, my fiance is now in NY getting his Doctorate, while for three months I will be here in Ohio student teaching, and finishing up my two bachelors degrees. I know it's only been one day, but I feel lost. We've been in eachother's hip pockets for the past three years..for the most part...sometimes he would go on tour with the Tommy Dorsey ORchestra for a few weeks, but it seemed like those weeks flew by. Right now, although we are closer than we've ever ...

It all started with Batman and Robin. Then it was adressed with Bert and Ernie. Now it's...Spongebob and Patrick?!?!?! Yes folks, you have read it correctly. Christian Conservatives are now claiming that the children's cartoon Spongebob Squarepants promotes and accepts homosexuality. I would love to meet these people and ask them how in the world they are able to get all of this free time to sit around and generate the sexuality of cartoon characters. Are people really this afraid of ho...

On Saturday, December 18th, I will be getting married! I can't believe it's less than one week away. I am every emotion you can think of right now. I am excited to be with my man again. I am scared to do the eight hour move. I am frusturated because I've been sick due to the little disease spreaders at school. I hope I'm well for the wedding!! AHH!!

I will finally get to see my sweetie this Friday! It will be the first time in three months. For those of you that don't know, my fiance is in New York getting his doctorate at Stony Brook University while I'm stuck here in Ohio. We have a busy weekend planned trying to fit in visiting with friends and family. We are also meeting with the wedding photographer to get some engagement shots made. I can't believe the wedding is so close!! YAY!!

I get to see my fiance in 18 days!! I am so excited because i haven't seen him since the begining of september. Here's an even more exciting thought...less than 6 weeks until the wedding and my college graduation!!! WHOOHOO!

Tomorrow Hardin and I will be married for 6 months. We were thinking of doing a couple things to celebrate this momentous occasion (it's momentous because we live in a little box and we haven't killed eachother yet! haha). Here are our ideas 1) Getting away to Western PA for a night of dinner and hotel pool swimming. On Sunday during our drive back we would go outlet shopping. or... 2) Get Bikes for each other so we can go exploring the island and get some exercise out of it...

Life can be full of changes. Some changes can be for the better, others for the worse. Changes are brought on by ones self. No matter what one might think, one cannot change a person. I believe that this is the number one reason that relationships fail. So many think that they can change a person. First off, if you care for someone, why change them? Shouldn't you love someone for who they are, not for what you think they can become? I see this more often in females than males. The...

Right now I am alone. For the next two weeks I will be alone. If I died, no one would realize it for another two weeks. (picture that stench!) Hardin is on the way to Portugal via cruise ship with the Dorsey Orchestra. He will be lucky to e mail me just a few times because it's so expensive. From what he's said so far, it sounds like he's having the time of his life. He is so lucky to be blessed with such a great talent. I truly am happy for him. However, I am not happy... ...

I find it so interesting that so many of us have different tastes when it comes to dating. I thought it would be fun to share what kind of people everyone is attracted to. As for build I like guys that are taller than me (which isn't hard since I'm 5`2), and on the meaty side (not fat but meaty--I like to feel protected). As for personality, he has to make me laugh. He has to be self assured and spontaneous. Also romantic. Not a cookie cutter type at all! I just described Hard...

I found out today that one of my dear friends from Undergrad was diagnosed with Leukemia. If anyone can beat it, it's him. He has such a genuine heart and spirit. Due to privacy I didn't post his name. I am in shock and terribly saddened. Say a prayer for my friend.

Yep, you've read it correctly. Hardin will be in Ohio until this Friday, leaving me here on the Island 500 miles away. I should stop whinning, but hey, we're newlyweds and I just want his face to be the first one I see when I get off work, not the face of the shithole neighbor. If I can handle four months, four days should be a piece of cake, right?!

Woman wants expensive item. Man wants woman. Woman pesters man to buy her expensive item. Man still wants woman. Woman STILL pesters man to go buy expensive item. Lightbulb goes off in man's head: If I buy her this expensive item, I will get laid. Woman STILL wants expensive item. Man buys expensive item. Woman is so excited to have expensive item. Man still wants woman. Woman gives into man's wants. All are happy (until woman wants next exp...