Life can be full of changes. Some changes can be for the better, others for the worse. Changes are brought on by ones self. No matter what one might think, one cannot change a person.
I believe that this is the number one reason that relationships fail. So many think that they can change a person. First off, if you care for someone, why change them? Shouldn't you love someone for who they are, not for what you think they can become? I see this more often in females than males. They come across a man and think, "Hmmm...what can I do to improve him?" Then they begin trying to "change" them.
Why is this? Can't you just look for someone you are initially attracted to? Why try and manipulate life? If the person wants to change, they will do it themselves.
So JU, am I way off on a tangent or do you agree?