A day in the life of an Ohioan turned New Yorker
More Cushin for the Pushin!
Published on November 22, 2004 By alison watkins In Health & Medicine
Recently there have been a slew of articles posted by many JUers about women's body image and the media and now it's my turn to respond. I am 5`2, 122 lbs, a size eight...and sadly enough by Hollywood's standards, that is considered "plus sized." Why is this, one might ask? Well, women everywhere have trashy mags such as Cosmo and Glamour to thank. They post sickly gaunt women throughout the pages and tell the readers that this is beautiful. It's like number of ribs one sees on these women translates into hotness by their standards.

Look at European art. Women's bodies in paintings in the Renissance days were curvy and voluptuous. The so called art photos of women in these magazines aren't curvy...actually to me, they look like prepubescant boys.

I would like to say that I am better than falling victim to all of this sickly body image, but I must admit, I am human in this respect. As I posted in Dharma's article, I was once a part of one of those retarded diet fads. When I met Hardin three years ago, I was happy, and in love (and still am to this day). We had a lot of fun...and that included a lot of eating not so healthy food. My weight went from 130 to 156. Shortly after that, I felt like a big bloated fat ass because I did not look like any of the super models in the magazines. I did some reading on the Atkins diet and decided to try it. In about nine months my weight went from 156 down to 115. Although that was obviously thin, I still thought I was big and fat because models who are a foot taller than me weighed exactly the same. Well, despite my weight loss, it had some physical effects on my health. I was getting headaches and always felt dizzy. I went to my Doctor and he diagnosed me with hypoglocemia and told me to ditch the Atkins diet. Over this summer, the weight started to creep back on. At first I started to freak, but then I realized hey, just eat healthily, and exercise, and who cares.

Now I am very pleased with my current build...and hey...I guess that's all that matters. Screw the media and those skinny bitches who made me feel like shit!

Comments
on Nov 22, 2004
I feel ya. When I met O (my man) 3 and some years ago, we did the eat, eat, eat thing. His family is French, so the food is rich and the wine is plenty! I started putting on weight. I'm 5'2", and a recovered gymnast (lots of leanmuscle mass). As typical, when gymnasts stop training, weight gain is easy. I got up to 140lbs. My mom made some crack about and I was mortified. I virtually stopped eating. I'd have less than 1000 calories a day and my summer job is landscaping, which burns a huge amount of calories. Headaches and dizziness. I got down to under 110 lbs when O said I could stand to gain a few pounds and my grandpa told me I looked stressed and unhappy. My grandpa! I stopped the maddness I'm happy now at 5'2" 115lbs most the time. Still occasionally, I'll freak though when I hear some of the stats about so and so supermodel that is 5'10" and 115 lbs. I look at her and then think, I weigh the same thing. I'm a blob. I analyze all my features while O stands by telling me I'm crazy until I settle down. I realize it's craziness, but it's a cyclicle disease of the mind I think. Once you get yourself in that cycle, and it starts, it's hard to stop it. I'm happy for some of the round bottomed, curvey models of late...someone posted an article recently on JU, but I can't remember who it was...

Anyway...you're not alone. I feel your pain. And PS, 5'2" 122lbs is perfect!

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on Nov 22, 2004
What a great response! haha--we should write Tyra Banks and ask her why in the heck there aren't people built like us representing the world. There are more people with our kind of build than 5`10 and 120 lbs!
on Nov 22, 2004
Ahh..I found the link on faat-bottomed girls by mignuna. Here it is for anyone interested Link

on Nov 23, 2004
It sucks very hard, doesn't it, alison? It frustrates me to no end.

Last night I was looking for a lingerie costume to surprise Adrian with when he comes home this spring, and I was disappointed to find that on the regular sites, the costumes come in sm, med, and lg, with lg being a size 7/8. Well, that's not gonna work. I tried the plus-sized sites (with MUCH fewer choices, btw) and found that the plus size starts at size 14. What I am supposed to do with that? I'm not thin enough to be normal, and not big enough to be plus-sized! Grrr.

I'm glad to hear that you've learned to love and accept your body and not beat yourself up for not disappearing when you turn sideways!

Great article.
on Feb 17, 2005
I say good for you. The media makes it hard for women to be a healthy weight and feel good about herself. If more of us would be the way you have become maybe being a stick would be less of a focus!!!
on Feb 17, 2005
I used to be considered skinny (I'm 5'2" and at the time I weighed 108lbs and wore a size 3). I went on a quest to gain weight, and I succeeded! Now I think I'm average, but according to the media I'm fat (I'm right at 125 and a size 6 or 7, depending on the brand). I can't win.